15 things to keep relationship working

1. love each other

2. dont lie

3. keep communication open

4. stay sweet

5. when you get hurt just FORGIVE and FORGET

6. never talk about breaks-up

7. never say its okay WHEN IT’S NOT

8. forget about “PRIDE”

9. if you say sorry MEAN IT

10. dont compare your past with your present

11. dont talk about your stupid ex’s

12. give and take process

13. beware of his/her feelings

14. when you had a fight, dont let the day pass

15. dont be the perfect one. BE THE RIGHT ONE

 

the important thing of all you have to understand each other

How to Stop Loving Someone Who Doesn’t Love You

1. Realize why it is pointless to hold on. When one exerts much effort to keep love alive within a relationship and it then fails, the one trying to hold the relationship together is heartbroken because the one that they love has rejected them

2. Be honest with yourself. In such a circumstance, the one with a broken heart needs to recognize that the relationship is over and to make a clear decision to stop pursuing this person as they are unable to love in return. To do this however, assistance is often needed.

3. Accept that the love is not mutual and probably never was. Psychological findings reveal the reason behind why some relationships do not work and why in some instances love cannot be reciprocated. The reason is quite simple, the loved one cannot accept love from the lover because it is not a mutual feeling, and the love is not considered by both parties.

4. Be logical and consider the reasons for why it is hard to let go. There are several reasons to why it is hard to stop loving and to forget such intense love, these are due to s/he 1) Always thinking about the good qualities found within the loved one; 2) Reminiscing over any little thing from the past such as text messages and emails that were written in the heat of the moment; and 3) not speaking the truth in front of the loved one, this is, keeping the feeling of love as a secret.

5. Accept and face the truth that your love is not possible. You then need to rid yourself of anything that could remind you of him such as text messages and songs you listened to. Another tip that will help you forget the person is to think that there are better people out there with whom you, as a brokenhearted person, could find true love with, a love that is felt with passion on both sides. In other words, you realize that the person you previously loved is not the perfect person.

6.Apply these steps together. When applying all of these steps, the brokenhearted person can forget the memory of a love lost and all the other factors that lead you to love this person. To be released from this spiritual tension, you need to convince yourself that you will meet a better person or think that the person you previously loved is no longer important to you.

7.Try and end the routine of thinking about them, over and over again. Stop saying that 1) I cannot live without you; 2) I cannot stop loving you; 3) I love this person more than any other; 4) I cannot love anyone else; 5) There is no one better than this person, they are perfect. In some cases, it can be impossible to stop loving someone, it all depends on your character and how intense your love is for someone.

How to Make Cheesecake

The traditional choice for the purist is the basic New York cheesecake with a simple graham cracker crust. Use any fruit or sour cream topping you wish. This recipe serves 12. Here are a few steps for creating a delicious treat.

Things you’ll nee :

• 1 3/4 c. graham cracker crumbs
• 1/2 tsp. cinnamon
• 1/2 c. melted butter
• 1 1/4 lbs. cream cheese
• 1 1/2 tsp. finely grated lemon peel zest
• 1 tsp. finely grated orange zest
• 1 tsp. vanilla extract
• 3/4 c. sugar
• 1 tbsp. flour
• 3 eggs
• 1 egg yolk
• 2 tbsp. heavy cream
• Wooden Spoons
• Drinking Glasses
• Rubber Spatula
• Groceries
• Mixing bowls
• Zesters
• Wire Whisks
• Hand Mixers
• Springform Pan
• Paper Liners

• 1

  Stir the crushed crackers, cinnamon and melted butter together well.

• 2
  

  Lay a circle of parchment paper in the bottom of a 9- or 10-inch springform pan. Pack the crust mixture in the bottom and up the sides of the pan. Use the bottom of a glass to press the crust flat.

• 3

  Heat the oven to 300 degrees F.

• 4

  Bring the cream cheese to room temperature.

• 5

  Place the cream cheese, zest and vanilla in a mixing bowl and beat by hand or with an electric mixer until just smooth.

• 6

  Add the sugar and flour gradually and beat just until incorporated.

• 7

  Add the eggs, yolk and cream and mix thoroughly.

• 8
  

  Pour the filling over the crust and bake for approximately 1 hour.

• 9
  

  Check the cake for doneness. The very center should jiggle slightly. Avoid using a knife or toothpick to check for doneness.

• 10

  Let the cake cool completely at room temperature, then refrigerate.

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5 easy pieces to piecing together your purpose in life

In the film Five Easy Pieces starring Jack Nicholson, the main character played by him, works in an oil field for many years after failing to achieve the dream of being a pianist; a dreamwhich his parents created for him. Throughout the film, Jack’s character Robert Dupea doesn’t really know what he’s supposed to do with his life. He keeps running from his fears, his family, and from his past.

Figuring out what you were put on this Earth to do can sometimes be like putting together a jigsaw puzzle when the pieces are spread around the world. Some people don’t complete their puzzle because they often don’t have the patience, desire, or they’re just fearful. However, the five pieces needed to complete the puzzle of your life’s purpose are actually quite easy to find.

Here are the five easy pieces to piecing together your purpose in life.

1. Recognizing your talents and passions

This is probably the easiest and most common way for people to discover their purpose in life. So we’ll start off with it.

Following you talents and passions will lead to fulfillment, happiness, and even money to pay the bills (or even a lot more). Natural born or acquired talents, it doesn’t matter; you were given them by someone or something for a reason.

To discover more about your passions and talents, think of:

- What makes you cry with joy.

- What makes you and others smile.

- What people sincerely say you’re good at.

- What makes you and others laugh.

- What keeps you up all night because you’re so fired up about it.

2. Look to your past

It’s difficult sometimes to reflect on our pasts. There are plenty of events I would like to erase from my memory, but I think it’s foolish to do so. Instead, we should use it to move us forward and to make sense of where we are now.

Looking to our pasts to get a sense of our purpose has its own puzzle pieces:

- What circumstances were born into?

Perhaps you were born into poverty. Then your purpose may be to rise above impoverished surroundings and to lead others by example.

- What major mistakes and vices did you parents battle?

Were they abusive, addicted to drugs/alcohol, or did they engage is something else destructive? Well your purpose is not to continue the cycle. You have to break free and again, lead by example.

- What have you failed at?

Failure should never be permanent. It’s only there to separate those who want something more than those who don’t. If a failure of something affected you so much that you couldn’t stop thinking about it, then your purpose is to get back in the game, approach it differently and succeed.

- Who affected you the most in a positive way?

Was it a teacher, author, actor, director, a president, or a local hero? If they changed your life, then perhaps you should carry on their mission as well.

3. There are 4 purposes that unite us all:

1. Be as happy as possible.

2. Live life the way you desire.

3. Change the lives of others. (It often doesn’t take as much as you think)

4. Leave the world a little better than when we were born into it.

And yes to all the negative Nancys and Neds: not everyone will fulfill these purposes, but everyone can.

4. Be open to multiple purposes

Many of us have multiple purposes, but often we have one main mission in life, and then other smaller reasons for existing. Perhaps someone is supposed to be a great parent, but also change the world in another way.

Other times, two different purposes can form into a larger one. I’ve been told that I was pretty good at writing and I should think about turning it into a career, but I always brushed it off. One thing I always wanted to do was change the world. So I decided one day to just combine the two and change the world through my talent of writing.

Our purposes can also vary depending on our age. Commonly it’s materialistic in nature when we’re younger, but not so much when we get older.

This leads me to the fifth piece of the puzzle…

5. Find out what your purpose in the now is

What you’re on this Earth to do today is more important than what your purpose later in life is. Today is guaranteed, tomorrow isn’t.

If you think your purpose it to share your art with the world, then start today! If you feel you’re supposed to be a social entrepreneur, then get going now! You may find something that’ll give your life meaning until the end.

We wait for the perfect moment, but it doesn’t exist. Concentrate on your purpose for today, tomorrow, next month, and for the next few years at the most. Life is now, not tomorrow.

 

http://www.lyved.com/body_soul/5-easy-pieces-to-piecing-together-your-purpose-in-life/

Keanna

so i have this friend since i was in high school, 10th grades. she’s the only girl-friend i have at class, the other were boys. at first i really didn’t like her. she’s too silent, too cleaver, too shy, too one-that-i-cant-be-friends-with , i really can’t get her too. she’s too boring. she wasn’t fit with me. i almost never heard her speak. so then one day, i had a little chit-chat with my teacher (let’s say her name is mrs.Afda)  ”ma’am , i think school should add some new girl-students” and she was like “yeah, be patien okay?” i was like “right, thats the only answer you can give me, seriously? im just tired im not fit with this girl. she’s too cleaver and too silent. how am i suppose to talk with her?” she said “maybe she just shy now. Kea, just let it flow would you?” she smiled at me and left. i mean, really? be patient and let it flow ma’am? let it flow your ass!!. well i expect more! sigh, but how could it be that bad. i mean, i’ll just lest everything flow, i haveno choice.

well i let it flow, each day we’re getting better and closer as just classmate (not bestfriend yet, hold on :p) .  well i’m myself forget what makes us bestfriend haha… ermmm let me think……. i think the first time is because we making fun of someone HA! i forget who but yeah! thats the way we become bestfriends

then some songs make us closer, really. she was nothing to me, she become everything to me. you know we do everything together. everyone call us soulmate. i think so

they said “true friend is someone who will never mad if you call her dog or bitch” well guess what? “dog or bitch” mean “love, babe or honey” for us. and we have our own language HAHAHA super duper weird language. but LOVE THE LANGUAGE!! thats the coolest language EVER!!! hahahahaha..  its just us being so creative so don’t blame us for being limited edition B-)

haha so, our hobby is : annoy people around, do a joke, making joke at……, simple plan, avenged sevenfold, wonder around mall or wherever, sleepover, webcam, guitar, making video, imagine, menyemenye, bullshit people >:D, ANNOY PEOPLE AND SOME MORE!! HAHAHA

really make my day

i’m going to say thanks to Anna, for make my each day has meanfull in it.EVERYDAY!

feeling? :/

hey my name is Kea, i’m 16 years old. i really dont know what to say but i feel like i have to write something. weird feeling lol

okay let’s talk about feeling. have you ever feel like bored then it was turning into sad feeling? i’m sure all of you have this one time or maybe more than once. you know what feeling is that? well when you bored, you have no idea what to do and then something bother your mind, what is that? that’s your loneliness. it keeps telling your mind that you’re all alone. and it suddenly become sad knowing that you’re alone right? well how come you can be so sad? sometime when you alone and nothing to do, all problem on your mind which aren’t on your mind for a while when you happy, they suddenly come to bothering you. when you dont know what to do, it means you give your mind chance to think worse, negative, horrible. when you feel sad and stress of all of that, you really really lazy to do anything.

so the point is

1. find new activity, like your hobby or something. but dont do it alone seriously, that would be pathetic. i mean do it with someone you can share anything with.

2. Deep breath. it helps in positive thinking, i promise.

3. positive thinking and began everything with smile. why we need that? of course we do. its health for our feeling trust me.

4. listening to song which make your day

5. if its all not help then i have nothing to say but GET A GRIP! LOL jk i mean keep trying

by : Kartika Yuke Annisa

Last Words

One day a girl, Sara, who was fifteen years old, came home from school in a very bad mood. She’d had a fight with her best friend that day and it hadn’t turned out well at all.
“Sara!” her mom yelled. “What are you doing? You know to do your chores right when you get home! And you’re late!”
“Coming, Mom!” Sara yelled, getting up and stomping towards the kitchen. “What?” she snapped as her mother gave her a stern look, annoyed.
“You’d better straighten up your attitude, young lady,” her mom warned, “or you’ll be grounded.”
“Whatever.” Sara began to throw around the dishes in the sink, trying to make as much noise as she possibly could. A plate cracked and cut her hand. Sara cursed.
“Sara!” her mom exclaimed. “How dare you use that language! Go to your room!”
“No!” Sara yelled, throwing down the towel she was using to wipe the blood off her hand.
“Do you want to say ‘no’ one more time and see what happens?” her mom asked. She looked furious.
“Sure,” Sara said sarcastically. “No.”
“How dare you!” Her mother slapped her.
Sara shrank back, staring incredulously at her mom. She had never hit Sara before.
“I HATE YOU!” Sara screamed before running out of the house.
“Sara, get back here!” her mom yelled, running after her.
“Leave me alone!” Sara screamed, running across the street. “I HATE YOU!” she screamed again.
She continued running until she heard the sound of screeching tires and a scream. She turned around, hoping that it wouldn’t be what she thought it would be….
People were crowding around Sara’s mother, who was laying in the middle of the street, looking broken, bloody.
“NOOOO!” Sara screamed, running over and pushing through everyone to kneel by her mom. “Oh no, oh no….”
Her mom wasn’t moving or breathing. She was gone. Sara tipped back her head and wailed to the sky, sobbing so hard it hurt.
She couldn’t believe the last words she had spoken to her mother were “I hate you”.

To everyone out there who tells your parents or friends you hate them, or any other rude thing, remember it might be the last thing you ever say to them.

50 things to say before you die

These lists are great for reminding you how short life is and for showing you what you’re missing.

This list is a little different; it compiles 50 things to say before you die.

Why such a list? Because you’d be surprised how little people express their selves and say what they need to say to those who matter. You don’t want to be on your deathbed before you utter these words.

You need to say these at the appropriate times and with true meaning behind them. Reading them now does not count.

1. Thanks for everything you’ve done. – Say it to your mother, father, grandmother, or sister; whoever deserves it. Say it when it’s least expected and when it will make the most impact.

2. You’ve changed my life.

3. I need you.

4. I’ve only got one life to live. – This will give you tremendous motivation.

5. Nothing can stop me.

6. I love my life.

7. There’s nothing I’d rather be doing.

8. I can change the world.

9. I will change the world.

10. I have changed the world.

11. I’m rich without money.

12. I’m doing what I was meant to do.

13. I conquered my biggest fear.

14. Glad to help you.

15. I have all the money I need.

16. I don’t care what people think.

17. I’m honest.

18. I’m going for it!

19. I’m proud of myself.

20. I’ve failed.

21. I’ve learned from my failures.

22. I have no regrets. – Many people believe everything happens for a reason. So why would you have any regrets?

23. I don’t like my life – Of course it’s a bad thing to say. But once you’ve acknowledged that you don’t like your life you can now begin to change it.

24. I’ve never had more fun in my life.

25. You hurt me.

26. There’s more to life than this.

27. I love you no matter what.

28. I’ve accomplished a lot.

29. You’ve been successful.

30. I’m listening. – Sometimes it’s more important to listen than to talk.

31. I’m here for you.

32. Words can’t describe the way I feel.

33. I’m not giving up.

34. I don’t have any worries.

35. There is no place like home.

36. It was a pleasure to talk to you.

37. I have all the time in the world.

38. I need a hand.

39. You’re my best friend.

40. I’m glad you were here.

41. I’m just gonna go for it.

42. I can’t thank you enough.

43. I’m trusting my gut.

44. I follow my own path.

45. What a wonderful world.

46. I take full responsibility. – Own up to your mistakes, people will respect you.

47. I’m not sorry. – There are times when you shouldn’t be sorry.

48. I came, I saw, I conquered.

49. I haven’t said enough.

50. I’m not afraid.

http://www.lyved.com/body_soul/50-things-to-say-before-you-die/

Napoleon Bonaparte had a Flu

Napoleon Bonaparte, while fighting in the Middle East in 1799, intended to release the 1200 Turkish soldiers who had captured the French, when France captured Jaffa. When Napoleon was being attacked by influenza. When inspecting the troops, Napoleon attacked by severe coughing until he said, “Ma sacre toux!” (Damn cough!). Escort officer Napoleon felt the general said, “massacrez Tous!” (Kill all!). consequently, all Turkish prisoners were killed. slaughter done only because the general cough and ear officers who misheard.

Napoleon Bonaparte, saat perang di Timur Tengah pada tahun 1799, bermaksud melepaskan 1.200 tentara Turki yang berhasil ditawan Prancis, ketika Prancis berhasil merebut Jaffa. Ketika itu Napoleon sedang terserang influenza.
saat menginspeksi pasukan, Napoleon terserang batuk berat hingga ia mengatakan “ma sacre toux!” (batuk sialan!). perwira pendamping Napoleon merasa sang jendral mengatakan “massacrez touz!!!” (Bunuh semua!!). Akibatnya, seluruh tawanan Turki itu di bunuh. Pembantaian pun dilakukan hanya karena batuk sang jendral dan kuping perwira yang salah dengar

Johannes Brahms hates Animal

when someone says that someone who deals in art has a smooth feel, then try to read the following facts.
Johannes Brahms (1833-1897), the great German composer, is a person who hates animals. At the time relaxing or looking for inspiration, composers often go to the attic of his house and prepare a bow and arrow. There almost every time he was shooting at his neighbor’s cats. These bad habits continue to do until all his life.

 

kalau ada yang mengatakan bahwa seseorang yang bergelut di bidang seni memiliki perasaan yang halus, maka cobalah baca fakta berikut ini.
Johannes Brahms (1833-1897), Komposer besar Jerman, adalah orang yang sangat membenci binatang. Di kala santai atau sedang mencari inspirasi, komposer ini sering pergi ke loteng rumahnya dan mempersiapkan busur dan anak panah. Di sana hampir tiap waktu ia memanah kucing-kucing milik tetangganya. kebiasaan buruk ini terus dilakukannya hingga sepanjang hidupnya.